Having the Talk

Tips for a Tough Conversation

The topic of moving to an assisted living facility is uncomfortable for seniors and their loved ones alike. For those looking to broach the subject with a parent or family member, it’s normal to feel nervous or guilty. Here are a few tips to consider when having the conversation:

  • Have a plan. Read up on assisted living and memory care facilities so you understand the type of care provided, and the options available.
  • It’s a two-way street. All parties should be encouraged to speak openly about options. That means all parties should be prepared to listen, too.
  • Wait for the right time. Don’t rush it—pick an opportune time when all parties are feeling as healthy and rested as possible.
  • Identify an ally. Whether it’s the family doctor, a family friend, or another person your family trusts, consider inviting them to the conversation.
  • Be patient. There’s no rush; many families discuss assisted living options many times before ultimately making a decision